Monday, September 21, 2009

Clear Expectations

Now i have clear expectations for the one i want to share my life with, it would be great if he has the below attributes, yet some compromises may take place which depends on the emotional bank account ( compromises will be to a certain extent):


Loving
Caring
Express his emotions
Take my opinion into consideration (doesn't over-rule)
Mosh 7eshary ( mosh bey7ot mana7'ero alzay alzalouma fe kol 7aga)
Calm not nervous
Cheerful not depressed & negative all the way
Cultured in terms of reading, listening to music & interested in culture in general
Agile: open to change & accepts new ideas
Religious: prays regularly ( Rabena fe 7ayatoh)
Equal to my financial & social standards
Responsible
Honest & never lie
Emotional, not rationale 99.9%
Determined & has a mission in life
Respectable: respects himself & others ( including ppl's feelings)
Extrovert
Has passion
Moderate age difference
Physically fit ( mosh kersh we 7arakat)

2 comments:

Mohammad said...

believe me, it's not a good idea to put prerequisites in anything that has to do with emotions. This is coming from a person who things pre-s have ruined his life for him.

Yousra said...

I agree with you that one should not have a checklist, yet one needs to be clear of what he/she has in mind regarding a long term relationship. And i believe that when/if one meets Mr. Right, he/she can compromise anything ( only valid for emotional ppl tab3an:)bec. rational ppl will compromise emotions favouring their checklist